I think the best connections happen when no one forces anything: a look, a shared laugh, a 'the same thing happens to me'. I like talks that go from the absurd to the existential in 15 minutes. What's the last time you felt real butterflies?. I have mastery in looks that speak for themselves and a tone of voice that caresses before touching. I'll leave the rest for when we're close. I like that they talk to me tenderly and sweetly, but when we are in bed, treat me like your whore. I want to make love all day and experience different orgasms. The forbidden is usually the most exciting.